Usually family
is responsible for development of a psyche that forces an individual to live life
just pleasing parents and others rather than making self happy. One continues
to seek approval & support and does not realize that as an individual one
has own will and purpose of life to be determined by one’s own unfolding.
Despite
being successful and independent one still feels a vacuum inside
that puts him/her into lot of emotional turmoil. There
comes a point in life when one starts questioning why he/she is doing what he/she
is doing as per other’s expectations and feels depressed. One feels like
leaving everything, explore the world, enjoy own company, drinking & smoking
to forget the past and experience peace but does not understand the purpose of
life. The intense pain and emotional turmoil may be the result of a tough
childhood, brought up in hostile circumstances, burden of responsibilities, becoming
over responsible and start of earning at very young age.
Actually one starts running
away from reality in order to make inner child happy, enjoy life, forget hard
facts of childhood and in turn lose stability. One just goes in any direction
that comes his/her way but wrong direction causes guilt, adds to the misery and
makes situation worse.
The need of an hour is to
face the reality. The inner child needs pampering, unconditional love, understanding
that I am the one who chose it as a soul, I had some karmic debt to pay, I
chose my own set of parents for a specific reason. The acceptance of reality
heals the soul & forgiveness becomes easy.
We need
to learn to look within, nurture and awaken this inner being. The awareness shall
dawn with the aid of support group and therapist. One may feel worse before one
feels better, but will ultimately find out how to live for oneself & how to
make self happy. Healing the inner child makes an individual comfortable
& stable that helps find out what he/she actually needs and choose his/her direction
accordingly to get it.
Contact
Dr Vandana Raghuvanshi M-9872880634 for Inner Child Therapy
